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Arief is a single parent of a toddler and a seven-year-old - help us after a divorce

Arief and a toddler and a seven-year-old need a bridge to stability after a divorce.

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Arief Dwi Tanoto
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Jakarta
After a divorce in August, I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a driver, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a web developer in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $450 goes: • Course fees and exam costs: $100 • Childcare and after-school care: $220 • Groceries and school meals: $130 Thank you for reading my story. - Arief

Updates from Arief

  1. Wanted to say thank you properly. 47% funded and I made the first payment toward childcare and after-school care.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($126 in total) the plan for childcare and after-school care is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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  • Wishing you the best, Arief. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I'm in retail myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you

    • how is Arief doing now?

      • Sending strength, Arief. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Blessings

        • So sorry you're going through this, Arief. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Blessings.

          • Thinking of you, Arief. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Don't give up.

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