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Aileen wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Help Aileen stay in her own home with six months of part-time care.

๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ Oakland, California, United States2,577 views
Miguel K. Marquez
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Oakland
I'm caring for my mother, who's 81. After worsening Parkinson's disease Aileen can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Aileen desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Aileen worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,900 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (six months): $4,750 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $880 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $270 I'll keep this page updated with receipts as things happen.

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  • Hope things get better soon, Miguel. Get well soon.

    • Keep going, Miguel. Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours

      • Hang in there. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.

        • wishing you peace. Wishing Aileen a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Sent it to 11 people at work.

          • sending love, Miguel. This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Saint-Denis this morning. All the best

            • thanks for sharing this. Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours. Thinking of Oakland!

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