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Vivian is a single parent of three children under 7 - help us after my partner leaving

Vivian and three children under 7 need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

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Vivian Hudson
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Last September I went through my partner leaving, and I'm now raising three children under 7 on my own. I work as a cleaner, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by December, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,600 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,550 • Childcare and after-school care: $1,100 • Groceries and school meals: $520 • Course fees and exam costs: $430 Thanks for being kind about this.

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  • Letícia Bruna SantanaID verifiedPhoto verified

    Thanks for sharing this. I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Take care

    • Rooting for you, Vivian. I hope things turn around soon. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

      • Wishing you the best, Vivian. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Love from New Delhi.

        • Hope this works out for you. I went through something like this 13 years ago and strangers helped me out. Love from Eldoret

          • Thanks for sharing this, Vivian. Hope you get there. Love from Saket

            • hope things get better soon, Vivian. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Thinking of London.

              • Rooting for you, Vivian. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Thinking of London

                • Hope things get better soon. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. We're a small family in Kakamega but we're thinking of you. Take care.

                  • I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Montgomery.

                    • Liliana T. TapiaID verified

                      Wishing you the best, Vivian. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My father had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Love from Warsaw.

                      • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from București

                        • thinking of you and your family, Vivian. I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

                          • Best of luck, Vivian. Shared this with my family.

                            • Hope you get there. Thinking of London

                              • best of luck, Vivian. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. God bless.

                                • Keep going, Vivian. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of London.

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