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Victor needs someone who understands: peer support in recovery

Victor is ninety days into recovery and would welcome a mentor with lived experience.

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Victor Obinna Zakari
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Epe
I'm ninety days into recovery from gambling addiction. I attend meetings and see a counselor, but the weeks between meetings are the hardest. I'd love a mentor - someone who has a year or more of recovery and who would be willing to talk once a week. I'm not looking for a replacement for treatment. I'm looking for someone who understands what a bad Tuesday night feels like. I'd prefer someone who's happy to do video calls. Any country is fine. I'll be respectful of your time and boundaries, and happy to pay it forward later. Thank you for reading my story.
effort
1 call a week
format
Online or by phone
skills
lived experience, empathy

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  • Best of luck, Victor. Shared it with a few friends. Love from Munich.

    • Thinking of you, Victor. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Greetings from Colombo.

      • Wishing you peace, Victor. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

        • looking forward to the next update. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Thinking of Epe

          • Thinking of you and your family. Shared it with a few friends. Love from Valencia.

            • stay strong. This could happen to any of us. Greetings from Dnipro.

              • Thinking of you and your family, Victor. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Greetings from Toulouse.

                • Sending strength, Victor. Wishing Victor a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Greetings from Bhaktapur.

                  • Get well soon. I'll check back for the next update. Love from Cologne.

                    • You're not alone. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from San Francisco

                      • Wishing Victor a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Love from Eldoret.

                        • Wishing you the best, Victor. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

                          • You're not alone. Your post was clear and honest. Don't be hard on yourself for asking

                            • Looking forward to the next update. I have a 6 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from London

                              • Wishing you peace. Wishing Victor a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Blessings

                                • Hope it all works out, Victor. Hope you get there. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.

                                  • Juma AthumaniAddress verified

                                    You're not alone, Victor. Shared this with my family

                                    • Get well soon. Put this on a community board in Dundee this morning.

                                      • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Thinking of Epe.

                                        • get well soon. Put this on a community board in Nagpur this morning. Greetings from Nagpur.

                                          • So sorry you're going through this, Victor. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Wish I lived closer to Arlington so I could bring a meal. Love from Mumbai.

                                            • Wishing you peace. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from Johannesburg.

                                              • Hang in there. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Blessings

                                                • Teresita K. PascualPhoto verified

                                                  Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Saint Petersburg

                                                  • Stay strong, Victor. This could happen to any of us. Wish I lived closer to Nuremberg so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Epe.

                                                    • Sending strength, Victor. Hope this works out for you. I went through something like this 6 years ago and strangers helped me out. Love from Sydney.

                                                      • Shweta B. TiwariPhoto verified

                                                        Hang in there. Looking forward to the next update. My husband and I read this together. All the best!

                                                        • Hope it all works out, Victor. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Thinking of Epe.

                                                          • Muhammad Omer MalikPhoto verified

                                                            Thanks for sharing this. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Love from Rosario.

                                                            • Wishing you the best, Victor. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Cambridge

                                                              • wishing Victor a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

                                                                • Hope it all works out. Wishing Victor a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

                                                                  • Thinking of you. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

                                                                    • You're not alone, Victor. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. God bless.

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