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Ruby is isolated after spinal surgery: a call a week would help

No advice needed - just a kind ear and some conversation for 30 minutes a week.

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Ruby Turner
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Jacksonville
After spinal surgery, I have been mostly housebound for 5 weeks. My family live far away, and the days can feel very long. I'm not looking for therapy - I've that covered - but for conversation. I'm hoping for someone who can call for about 30 minutes once a week whenever suits us both. I like film, travel stories and poetry, and can listen to anything. This can be from anywhere in the world as long as you speak English. We can arrange the calls through the platform, with email shared only when we're both comfortable. Thanks for even thinking about it. Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.
effort
30 minutes a week
format
Online or by phone
skills
listening, patience
#companionship#phone-buddy#recovery#mental-health

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People who offered to help

  • Wesley Molina ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง Accepted

    I live about 4 km from Jacksonville. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need. Happy to chat first.

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3.8(8 reviews)

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  • Hannah C. Ortega๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡งVerified helper
    Went above and beyond

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Akinyi Fatuma Kariuki๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌVerified helper
    Very responsive and caring

    I was skeptical at first, but this person proved to be reliable and genuinely interested in helping. Their response time was incredible and their solutions were practical.

  • Obinna Uchenna Alabi๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌVerified donor
    Exceeded expectations

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Alina Diana Romanov๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡นVerified donor
    Really cared about my situation

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

  • Shirley N. Garcia๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified donor
    Made me feel heard

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Hannah Matilda Danso๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญVerified helper
    Would recommend to anyone

    I was nervous about reaching out, but this person made me feel comfortable and supported from the very first interaction. Their help was invaluable.

  • Diana Anna Tarasov๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified helper
    Made a real difference

    The help I received was exactly what was described and more. This person follows through on their commitments and genuinely cares about making a positive impact.

  • Yamuna D. Venkatesh๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณVerified helper
    Great help in a difficult time

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

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  • Beth P. Sandoval

    thinking of you and your family, Ruby. This could happen to any of us. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

    • Teresa Maja Urbaล„ski

      Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'm in farming myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you!

      • Ceren Meltem Koรง

        you're not alone, Ruby. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected

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