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Matthew is isolated after spinal surgery: a call a week would help

No advice needed - just a kind ear and some conversation for 30 minutes a week.

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Matthew N. Hayes
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Macon
After spinal surgery, I have been mostly housebound for 4 weeks. My family live far away, and the days can feel very long. I'm not looking for therapy - I've that covered - but for conversation. I'm hoping for someone who can call for about 30 minutes once a week whenever suits us both. I like history, chess and quiz shows, and can listen to anything. This can be from anywhere in the world as long as you speak English. We can arrange the calls through the platform, with email shared only when we're both comfortable. Thanks for even thinking about it. If you can't give, please share this page. It does reach people.
effort
30 minutes a week
format
Online or by phone
skills
listening, patience

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  • Theodore D. Thomas πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§

    I live about 19 km from Macon. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need

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  • Birgitta LindbergπŸ‡ΈπŸ‡ͺVerified donor
    Made a real difference

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

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    Really cared about my situation

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    Amazing support system

    Couldn't have asked for better support. They listened carefully, understood my situation deeply, and provided thoughtful advice that actually worked. Thank you so much.

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    Truly grateful for the support

    Perfect example of someone making a real difference. They took time out of their busy schedule to help me and never made me feel like a burden.

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    Great help in a difficult time

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

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    Restored my faith in humanity

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  • So sorry you're going through this, Matthew. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like

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