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Help Rey get through 6 hard months with a teenage son and a daughter in primary school

A single father in Lapu-Lapu needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Rey retrains.

🇵🇭 Lapu-Lapu, Cebu, Philippines984 views
Rey C. Cruz
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Lapu-Lapu
Last July I went through the death of my husband, and I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a school kitchen assistant, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $450 goes: • Groceries and school meals: $130 • Rent top-up: $170 • Childcare and after-school care: $150 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

Updates from Rey

  1. Thank you all. We're at 45% now ($204). I'm honestly stunned. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 21% now ($95). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for childcare and after-school care is now scheduled.

  3. We're at 10% thanks to 3 of you. I made the first payment toward groceries and school meals. More news soon. - Rey

  • Can Aydın 🇹🇷 · $50

    “Wish I could do more. I'm in Üsküdar, thinking of you. - Üsküdar”

  • Asher Perkins 🇬🇧 · $20
  • Danylo Ruslan Boyko 🇷🇺 · $20
  • Latha S. Raju 🇮🇳 · $15
  • Elijah R. Cooper 🇺🇸 · $20
  • Lemlem Fikir Mekonnen 🇪🇹 · $78.50
  • Ratul Mahin Uddin 🇮🇳 · $10

    “From my family to yours. Thought of Rey all day after reading this.”

  • Tomás C. Franco 🇲🇽 · $25
  • Purvi M. Sawant 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Taghreed Dina Aziz 🇺🇸 · $5

    “Hope it all works out! - Baton Rouge”

  • Rashid Naveed Ali 🇵🇰 · $30

    “Take care of yourselves. My father told me about this one. - Faisalabad”

  • Anonymous 🇲🇽 · $10

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  • Hope things get better soon. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. We're a small family in Buenos Aires but we're thinking of you. All the best.

    • Vinh Bảo CaoPhoto verified

      Wishing you peace. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. My neighbor had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

      • So sorry you're going through this. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I went through something like this 10 years ago and strangers helped me out. Thinking of Lapu-Lapu.

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