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Help Henry get through 5 hard months with a teenage son and a daughter in primary school

Henry and a teenage son and a daughter in primary school need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

🇬🇧 England, United Kingdom3,780 views
Henry H. Ray
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Manchester
Last December I went through the death of my husband, and I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by March, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,500 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,750 • Childcare and after-school care: $630 • Groceries and school meals: $800 • Course fees and exam costs: $320 I'll keep this page updated with receipts as things happen.

Updates from Henry

  1. We're at 75% thanks to 54 of you. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. More news soon.

  2. 28% there. I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts. Thank you.

  3. Thank you all. We're at 14% now ($481). I'm honestly stunned. the first invoice got paid this week.

  • Andrew H. Edwards 🇺🇸 · $100

    “Stay strong. Thought of Henry all day after reading this. - Fresno”

  • Anonymous 🇰🇪 · $77.50
  • Funmilayo Abosede Jimoh 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Nevaeh D. Watson 🇺🇸 · $75

    “Hope things get better. I'm in Portland, thinking of you.”

  • Anonymous 🇬🇧 · $50
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  • Usman Kingsley Danjuma 🇳🇬 · $15

    “Rooting for you. Only $15 but hope it helps. - Ikeja”

  • Salma Noor Cherif 🇪🇬 · $5
  • Alejandro S. Martínez 🇪🇸 · $10

    “Hope the March deadline works out. - Móstoles”

  • Siyabonga W. Kruger 🇿🇦 · $20

    “Best of luck. Only $20 but hope it helps. - Soweto”

  • Philippe Florian Garcia 🇫🇷 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇳🇬 · $25

    “Thought of Henry all day after reading this. - Abuja”

  • Anonymous 🇰🇪 · $10

    “Every little bit. Thought of Henry all day after reading this. - Mombasa”

  • Tanvi M. Mishra 🇦🇺 · $100
  • Bình Thắng Le 🇻🇳 · $10

    “Thinking of you. Thought of Henry all day after reading this. - Hanoi”

  • Esperanza C. Ramos 🇨🇴 · $75
  • Inés K. Arias 🇺🇸 · $10

    “Every little bit. Small amount but sent with love. - Vancouver”

  • David K. Ware 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Victor Peter Bakari 🇰🇪 · $100
  • Mukasa Macharia Onyango 🇰🇪 · $25

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  • Take care. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

    • Keep going. It takes guts to ask. Well done. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Auckland.

      • Praying for you. Shared this with my family. All the best!

        • Tharun W. BhatPhoto verified

          Wishing you peace. Looking forward to the next update. After 8 years in farming I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Greetings from Yogyakarta.

          • wishing you the best, Henry. Hope you get there. Take care.

            • Hang in there, Henry. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon.

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