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Help Declan get through 3 hard months with a toddler and a seven-year-old

Declan and a toddler and a seven-year-old need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

🇨🇦 Toronto, Ontario, Canada2,900 views
Declan G. Lucas
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Toronto
Since the death of my husband in September, I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a driver, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a teaching assistant in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,550 goes: • Childcare and after-school care: $1,200 • Groceries and school meals: $550 • Rent top-up: $1,800 I hope life is good to you. - Declan

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  1. Quick update: $1,586 raised so far (45%). the first invoice got paid this week. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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  • Wishing you the best. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. After 18 years in public service I know how hard it's to ask for anything

    • Hang in there, Declan. Hope you get there. After 13 years in logistics I know how hard it is to ask for anything. Love from Melbourne.

      • Sending strength, Declan. Hope you get there.

        • hope things get better soon, Declan. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Sent it to 28 people at work. Thinking of Toronto

          • Your post was clear and honest. After 10 years in engineering I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Greetings from São Paulo.

            • Sending love, Declan. This could happen to any of us. Thinking of Toronto

              • Hang in there. Hope you get there. Thinking of Toronto.

                • Hang in there, Declan. Hope you get there. Wish I lived closer to Riyadh so I could bring a meal. Love from Envigado.

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