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Funeral costs for Oky's mother, Ayu
Ayu passed away on 30 June; we're raising $850 for a respectful funeral in Bandung.
🇮🇩 Bandung, West Java, Indonesia1,794 views
Ayu, my mother, passed away on 30 June after a stroke. She was 48 years old. She was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance.
The funeral home has given us a quote of $850 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 11 July.
I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Ayu to have a dignified farewell.
Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers.
The funds will be paid directly to the funeral home, and I'll share the receipt.
Where the $850 goes:
• Funeral home services and casket: $430
• Cemetery plot and burial fees: $300
• Transport of the deceased: $80
• Memorial gathering for the family: $40
Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.
Updates from Oky
Wanted to say thank you properly. 30% funded and I met with the funeral home and confirmed the amounts.
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“Wish I could do more. From Mérida with love. - Mérida”
- Gihan Nimal Rajapaksa 🇱🇰 · $9
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Sending good thoughts, Oky. Shared this with my family
I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. After 11 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Thủ Đức
stay strong. Your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Bandung.
praying for you. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.
Thanks for sharing this, Oky. Hope you get there. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Take care.
Hope it all works out, Oky. This could happen to any of us. My husband and I read this together. Love from Mecca
Thinking of you, Oky. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did
Rooting for you, Oky. Shared this with my family. Thinking of Bandung.
Sending good thoughts. Shared it with a few friends. After 8 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything.
Good luck, Oky. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Sent it to 9 people at work.