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Farewell fund for Ian: help Benjamin's family in San Diego

After the sudden passing of Ian, the family is asking for help with the funeral home and burial costs.

🇺🇸 San Diego, California, United States4,815 views
Benjamin L. Oliver
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San Diego
Ian, my brother, passed away on 21 April after a stroke. He was 68 years old. He was the heart of our family and had no savings or life insurance. The funeral home has given us a quote of $4,300 and the cemetery needs payment before the burial date of 2 May. I have already used what I had for the hospital bills. My family is scattered, and many of us are out of work. We want Ian to have a dignified farewell. Any help at all means a lot, and so do your prayers. Anything left over after the funeral will be donated to the San Diego hospice. Where the $4,300 goes: • Funeral home services and casket: $2,800 • Cemetery plot and burial fees: $1,100 • Memorial gathering for the family: $400 Every share and every dollar helps. - Benjamin

Updates from Benjamin

  1. 49% there. I met with the funeral home and confirmed the amounts. Thank you.

  2. We're at 42% thanks to 41 of you. we've started the first stage. More news soon.

  3. Thank you all. We're at 22% now ($944). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

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  • Sending strength, Benjamin. Your post was clear and honest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. God bless

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