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Could you host Tess? A room for 3 months

After leaving an abusive relationship, Tess needs a safe, quiet room in Haarlem for 3 months while getting back on their feet.

🇳🇱 Haarlem, North Holland, Netherlands910 views
Tess Merel De Boer
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Haarlem
After leaving an abusive relationship, I'm temporarily without a home. I work as a care assistant in Haarlem and I have a steady income, but I can't find a place that will let me in without the first month, a deposit and references that I'm in the middle of replacing. I'm looking for a spare room for 3 months. I can pay $350 a month toward bills, I'm tidy and quiet, and I'd be happy to help with cooking, shopping or yard work. I have no pets, I don't smoke, and I have a landlord and employer references. I understand that inviting a stranger into your home is a big step. I'd be glad to meet in a public place first and to share my work details. Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself.
effort
2–4 months
format
In person in Haarlem
skills
a spare room, hospitality

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People who offered to help

  • Farhana Lipi Haque 🇧🇩

    I live about 17 km from Haarlem. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need. Happy to chat first.

  • Alexander G. Chambers 🇬🇧

    I live about 12 km from Haarlem. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need.

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4.7(3 reviews)

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  • Mariko Hina Tamura🇯🇵Verified donor
    Made me feel heard

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Mizanur Zahid Parvez🇮🇳Verified donor
    Exactly what I needed

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Jose Weaver🇬🇧Verified donor
    Made me feel heard

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

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  • Léa Émilie RemyPhoto verified

    so sorry you're going through this, Tess. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Love from San Diego

    • Keep going, Tess. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. All the best

      • Rooting for you, Tess. Looking forward to the next update.

        • Salim Barasa OnyangoAddress verified

          Keep going, Tess. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry!

          • Hope it all works out. This could happen to any of us. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Thinking of Haarlem.

            • wishing you peace. Shared it with a few friends. I'm in engineering myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings

              • You're not alone, Tess. This could happen to any of us. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Blessings.

                • Thinking of you, Tess. Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours. Blessings.

                  • Take care. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Wish I lived closer to Cambridge so I could bring a meal.

                    • Thinking of you and your family, Tess. I hope things turn around soon. My husband and I read this together. Take care.

                      • Sending love. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Love from Coventry.

                        • thinking of you. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. All the best.

                          • Stay strong, Tess. Your post was clear and honest. Put this on a community board in San Francisco this morning. God bless

                            • Hope it all works out, Tess. Looking forward to the next update. Please keep us posted.

                              • Rooting for you, Tess. This could happen to any of us. Take care.

                                • Stay strong, Tess. I hope things turn around soon. God bless.

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