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Care for Wesley, 81: help cover a carer and medication in Rochester
Wesley, 81, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $3,650 for a carer and medicines.
🇺🇸 Rochester, New York, United States4,378 views
I'm caring for my father, who's 81. After a stroke last January Wesley can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Wesley desperately wants to stay at home.
I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer.
Wesley worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back.
Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference.
Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies.
Where the $3,650 goes:
• Medication and prescriptions: $360
• Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $570
• Part-time carer (four months): $2,720
Thank you so much.
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Thanks for sharing this, Lily. Shared this with my family. My neighbor in Pasig donated after I showed her your page
hang in there. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like
I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Haarlem.
wishing you peace, Lily. I hope things turn around soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Take care.
Hang in there. Hope you get there. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care.