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Back on our feet: Sawsan and three children under 7 in Jeddah

After my partner leaving, Sawsan is raising three children under 7 alone and needs $2,100 to stay afloat for 4 months.

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Sawsan Zahra Fahmy
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Jeddah
Last March I went through my partner leaving, and I'm now raising three children under 7 on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a bookkeeper in the evenings, which will triple my income by June, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $2,100 goes: • Rent top-up: $910 • Childcare and after-school care: $350 • Groceries and school meals: $480 • Course fees and exam costs: $360 Thank you so much.

Updates from Sawsan

  1. Quick update: $1,472 raised so far (70%). we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  2. Quick update: $1,332 raised so far (63%). the plan for course fees and exam costs is now scheduled. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Quick update: $246 raised so far (12%). the first invoice got paid this week. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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    “Hope the June deadline works out. - Celaya”

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    “Be well. Hope the June deadline works out. - Manchester”

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  • Janet Akosua Badu 🇬🇭 · $10

    “Every little bit. Thought of Sawsan all day after reading this.”

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  • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Sawsan.

    • Sawsan Zahra FahmyOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

      The list at the bottom is the whole picture. rent top-up is the biggest at $910. Let me know if you want more detail.

  • Sending love, Sawsan. Shared it with a few friends. Love from Bang Khen.

    • Good luck, Sawsan. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Take care.

      • Rooting for you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Put this on a community board in Oakland this morning. Love from Oakland.

        • Madhuri A. NaikID verified

          Keep going, Sawsan. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. My husband and I read this together

          • Thanks for sharing this, Sawsan. This could happen to any of us. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Thinking of Jeddah.

            • Wishing you the best. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Sent it to 23 people at work. Take care.

              • Good luck. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I have a 5 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Radom.

                • Good luck, Sawsan. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Take care

                  • Wishing you peace, Sawsan. This could happen to any of us. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. All the best.

                    • a colleague of mine might know someone for this in Makkah. I'll ask around and let you know!

                      • Yana Maryna MelnykPhoto verified

                        thinking of you. Hope you get there. Put this on a community board in Konya this morning.

                        • Best of luck. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Put this on a community board in Ciudad de México this morning. Blessings!

                          • sending good thoughts. Looking forward to the next update. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings.

                            • Hope things get better soon. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Love from Nashik.

                              • Thinking of you and your family. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Thinking of Jeddah.

                                • thinking of you. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Put this on a community board in Brandon this morning. All the best

                                  • Stay strong, Sawsan. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. After 23 years in accounting I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

                                    • hang in there. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Greetings from Medellín.

                                      • Take care, Sawsan. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Jeddah.

                                        • Shared this with my family. Put this on a community board in Lahore this morning. Blessings.

                                          • Thinking of you and your family, Sawsan. I hope things turn around soon. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Blessings.

                                            • Sending strength, Sawsan. I hope things turn around soon. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Blessings.

                                              • Thinking of you, Sawsan. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I hope June is when things finally get easier.

                                                • Praying for you, Sawsan. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Put this on a community board in Campinas this morning.

                                                  • Stay strong, Sawsan. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Blessings.

                                                    • so sorry you're going through this, Sawsan. I hope things turn around soon.

                                                      • Hope it all works out, Sawsan. Your post was clear and honest. God bless.

                                                        • Sending love, Sawsan. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps

                                                          • Sandra Ama MensahAddress verified

                                                            thinking of you and your family, Sawsan. Your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Jeddah

                                                            • Lorena D. CortésPhoto verified

                                                              Thanks for sharing this, Sawsan. Hope this works out for you. Wish I lived closer to Kingston so I could bring a meal

                                                              • You're not alone. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from George

                                                                • Roberto LaraPhoto verified

                                                                  Praying for you, Sawsan. Looking forward to the next update. It's not much but it's yours. All the best.

                                                                  • Praying for you, Sawsan. I hope things turn around soon. I went through something like this 11 years ago and strangers helped me out

                                                                    • Thanks for sharing this. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

                                                                      • good luck. Shared it with a few friends. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. All the best

                                                                        • Wishing you the best. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Love from Córdoba.

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