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A weekly phone friend for Rubina, recovering at home after spinal surgery

No advice needed - just a kind ear and some conversation for 30 minutes a week.

🇧🇩 BangladeshPosted Oct 1, 20261,580 views
Rubina Ishrat Howlader
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Member since Sep 27, 2026 · Savar
After spinal surgery, I have been mostly housebound for 10 weeks. My family live far away, and the days can feel very long. I'm not looking for therapy - I've that covered - but for conversation. I'm hoping for someone who can call for about 30 minutes once a week whenever suits us both. I like podcasts, football and cooking, and can listen to anything. This can be from anywhere in the world as long as you speak English. We can arrange the calls through the platform, with email shared only when we're both comfortable. Thanks for even thinking about it. Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.
effort
30 minutes a week
format
Online or by phone
skills
listening, patience

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  • thinking of you and your family. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

    • Thinking of you and your family, Rubina. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. It's not much but it's yours. Blessings

      • Praying for you, Rubina. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.

        • Thanks for sharing this, Rubina. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My husband and I read this together. Greetings from Asaba.

          • Annabelle GonzalesID verified3h ago

            Keep going. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Greetings from Tallahassee.

            • sending strength, Rubina. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

              • Stay strong, Rubina. I hope things turn around soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Greetings from Jacksonville

                • Thinking of you and your family, Rubina. I hope things turn around soon. Sent it to 11 people at work. Blessings.

                  • Hope things get better soon, Rubina. Hope you get there. Thinking of Savar

                    • Bambang Joko CahyonoPhoto verified3h ago

                      Thanks for sharing this. Shared this with my family. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. God bless

                      • Good luck. Shared this with my family. I have a 13 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Thinking of Savar.

                        • Natalia C. RiversPhoto verified3h ago

                          Thinking of you. Wishing Rubina a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

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