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Ximena wants to stay at home - help fund eight months of care

Ximena can't afford the care She needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $3,750.

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Ximena B. Velasco
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Bellevue
I'm caring for me, who's 86. After a diagnosis of dementia Ximena can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ximena desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Ximena worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $3,750 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $2,450 • Medication and prescriptions: $530 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $210 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $560 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Ximena

  1. Quick update: $1,285 raised so far (34%). the first invoice got paid this week. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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  • So sorry you're going through this, Ximena. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier.

    • Sending love, Ximena. Shared it with a few friends. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. God bless!

      • Keep going, Ximena. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I'm in retail myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. All the best.

        • Stay strong, Ximena. Shared it with a few friends. After 18 years in farming I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

          • Stay strong. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Nha Trang.

            $2,686.50 raised of $3,750

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