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Vera wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Help Vera stay in her own home with three months of part-time care.

🇺🇦 Kyiv, Kyiv, Ukraine1,341 views
Ihor Mykola Havrylenko
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Kyiv
I'm caring for my mother, who's 82. After a diagnosis of dementia Vera can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Vera desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Vera worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $650 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $370 • Medication and prescriptions: $165 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $65 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $50 Thanks for being kind about this. - Ihor

Updates from Ihor

  1. Quick update: $420 raised so far (65%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  2. Quick update: $75 raised so far (12%). I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Quick update: $55 raised so far (8%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Alejandra E. Treviño 🇺🇸 · $235

    “Good luck. Only $235 but hope it helps. - Tallahassee”

  • Donal E. Nolan 🇮🇪 · $200

    “Praying for you. Please keep us posted. - Cork”

  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $100

    “Rooting for you. Hope the June deadline works out. - Nashik”

  • Dedi Muhammad Kurniawan 🇮🇩 · $30
  • Jiraporn Napat Eiamsa-ard 🇹🇭 · $30
  • Zainab Bushra Javed 🇵🇰 · $25

    “Thought of Vera all day after reading this. - Quetta”

  • Viviane Tatiane Cunha 🇧🇷 · $25
  • Naresh J. Bhatia 🇬🇧 · $20

    “Sending love. Thought of Vera all day after reading this. - Bristol”

  • Harold T. Johnson 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Uche Yetunde Musa 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Ikenna Femi Idowu 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Naresh R. Sethi 🇮🇳 · $10

    “Thought of Vera all day after reading this. - Nagpur”

  • Manoel Ricardo Leite 🇧🇷 · $10
  • Marcin Michał Wróbel 🇵🇱 · $10
  • Dylan H. Sims 🇬🇧 · $5

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2.5(4 reviews)

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  • Basma Farah Khoury🇪🇬Verified donor
    Patient and understanding

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Colton S. Kim🇺🇸Verified helper
    Outstanding person

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Ruth K. Schmidt🇨🇦Verified helper
    Made a real difference

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Ömer Recep Başaran🇹🇷Verified donor
    Would recommend to anyone

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

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  • Ignacio E. RíosPhoto verified

    Hang in there, Ihor. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. After 24 years in retail I know how hard it is to ask for anything. God bless

    $730 raised of $650

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