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Silas wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Silas can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $5,600.

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Patrick A. Gomez
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Tacoma
I'm caring for my father, who's 79. After a diagnosis of dementia Silas can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Silas desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Silas worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $5,600 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $4,600 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $530 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $470 Glad we found this place.

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  • Rajesh M. SwamyPhoto verified

    Sending good thoughts, Patrick. Wishing Silas a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Tacoma.

    • Sending good thoughts, Patrick. Get well soon. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Take care.

      • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I have a 14 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Thinking of Tacoma.

        • Best of luck, Patrick. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. We're a small family in Southampton but we're thinking of you.

          • Sending strength. It takes guts to ask. Well done. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Greetings from Mysuru.

            • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Wish I lived closer to Odesa so I could bring a meal.

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