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Remedios wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Remedios, 78, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,000 for a carer and medicines.

🇵🇭 1101, Quezon City, Metro Manila, Philippines818 views
Jayson M. Martinez
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Quezon City
I'm caring for my mother, who's 78. After a diagnosis of dementia Remedios can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Remedios desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Remedios worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,000 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $680 • Medication and prescriptions: $125 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $45 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $150 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

Updates from Jayson

  1. Wanted to say thank you properly. 22% funded and I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts.

  2. We're at 23% thanks to 9 of you. I made the first payment toward part-time carer. More news soon.

  3. Thank you all. We're at 12% now ($119). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

  • Luca G. Callahan 🇬🇧 · $100
  • Karan S. Rajput 🇮🇳 · $66
  • Esi Rita Tetteh 🇬🇭 · $63.50
  • Megan F. Mokoena 🇿🇦 · $60
  • Rahul P. Negi 🇮🇳 · $50

    “Rooting for you. Thought of Remedios all day after reading this. - Hubballi”

  • Gerhard C. Botha 🇿🇦 · $25
  • Kingsley Usman Zakari 🇳🇬 · $25
  • Kathleen J. Perez 🇵🇭 · $25
  • Revathi M. Krishnamurthy 🇮🇳 · $20
  • Adriana B. Zamora 🇺🇸 · $20

    “Hope things get better. From Eugene with love. - Eugene”

  • Wayne Parks 🇺🇸 · $20
  • Rita Leone 🇮🇹 · $20

    “All the best. Thought of Remedios all day after reading this. - Turin”

  • Aditi N. Bajwa 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Jericho P. Hernandez 🇵🇭 · $10

    “Thinking of you. My sister told me about this one. - Caloocan”

  • Antonio Ibáñez 🇪🇸 · $10
  • Maja Iwona Michalski 🇵🇱 · $5

    “Thought of Remedios all day after reading this. - Kraków”

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  • Take care, Jayson. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I went through something like this 11 years ago and strangers helped me out. Thinking of Quezon City.

    • Hope the doctors have good news. We're a small family in Mumbai but we're thinking of you. All the best

      • Bilal MaaloufPhoto verified

        Thanks for sharing this, Jayson. I hope things turn around soon

        • Thanks for sharing this, Jayson. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My husband and I read this together

          • Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Greetings from Derry

            $529.50 raised of $1,000

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