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Reagan wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Reagan can't afford the care She needs after worsening Parkinson's disease; we're asking for $1,100.

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Benjamin F. Crawford
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Sheffield
I'm caring for my mother, who's 88. After worsening Parkinson's disease Reagan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Reagan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Reagan worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,100 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $310 • Medication and prescriptions: $470 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $320 Glad we found this place. - Benjamin

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  1. Thank you all. We're at 49% now ($543). I'm honestly stunned. the first invoice got paid this week.

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  • Rabia Ecrin ErdemPhoto verified

    Rooting for you. Looking forward to the next update. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Take care!

    • You're not alone, Benjamin. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. God bless.

      • Rooting for you. Wishing Reagan a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Love from Jakarta.

        • Wishing you peace, Benjamin. This could happen to any of us. I'm in customer support myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings

          • Keep going, Benjamin. Hope you get there.

            • You're not alone, Benjamin. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes

              • You're not alone, Benjamin. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I have a 8 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Blessings

                • Keep going. I hope things turn around soon. I went through something like this 6 years ago and strangers helped me out

                  • Ivy HuntID verified

                    Thanks for sharing this. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. I hope December is when things finally get easier. All the best.

                    • Hope it all works out, Benjamin. Hope the doctors have good news. It's not much but it's yours. Love from El Paso

                      • Praying for you. I hope things turn around soon. I went through something like this 6 years ago and strangers helped me out

                        • Best of luck. Shared this with my family. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Blessings.

                          • Sending love, Benjamin. Get well soon. All the best.

                            • Wishing Reagan a smooth procedure and a full recovery. We're a small family in Athens but we're thinking of you. Greetings from Athens.

                              • Sending love, Benjamin. It takes guts to ask. Well done.

                                • Rooting for you, Benjamin. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. God bless

                                  • Thanks for sharing this. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Love from Surabaya.

                                    • Shared it with a few friends. Sent it to 8 people at work. Thinking of Sheffield.

                                      • You're not alone, Benjamin. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Please keep us posted. Love from Sydney.

                                        • you're not alone, Benjamin. Your post was clear and honest. We're a small family in Quezon City but we're thinking of you

                                          • everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Sheffield.

                                            • Shared this with my family. Love from Dresden

                                              • Looking forward to the next update. I'm in farming myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Take care.

                                                • Best of luck. Wishing Reagan a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

                                                  • It takes guts to ask. Well done. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Campinas

                                                    • Wishing you peace. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Thinking of Sheffield.

                                                      • stay strong, Benjamin. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I have a 11 year old who wants to send good wishes too.

                                                        • Good luck. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Sent it to 28 people at work. Thinking of Sheffield!

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