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Haruto wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Help Haruto stay in his own home with three months of part-time care.

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Haruto Shun Ito
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Tokyo
I'm caring for me, who's 78. After a stroke last August Haruto can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Haruto desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Haruto worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,250 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (three months): $3,450 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $270 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $195 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $335 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.

Updates from Haruto

  1. We're at 25% thanks to 25 of you. I made the first payment toward hospital bed and mattress rental. More news soon.

  2. Quick update: $757 raised so far (18%). I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Quick update: $235 raised so far (6%). I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Jay J. Patil ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $200
  • Muhammad Oky Purnomo ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $100

    โ€œRooting for you. Thought of Haruto all day after reading this. - Jakarta Baratโ€

  • Swapna H. Patel ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $100
  • Dennis Macharia Juma ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $100

    โ€œAll the best. I'm in Fort Portal, thinking of you.โ€

  • Duygu Tekin ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $74
  • Bennett S. Joseph ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $63

    โ€œHappy to help. - Albuquerqueโ€

  • Autumn M. Guzman ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $50
  • Sari Sinta Handoko ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $50
  • Karolina Agnieszka Krupa ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $50
  • Carter M. Woods ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $30

    โ€œWish I could do more. From Tallahassee with love.โ€

  • Sofia Polina Baranov ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $30
  • Mi-young Yu-na Noh ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $28
  • Naveed Qasim Ali ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $25
  • Easton Peterson ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $25
  • Dolores J. Ochoa ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ ยท $25

    โ€œStay strong. Saw your post and had to give. - Coatzacoalcosโ€

  • Sachin A. Mehra ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25

    โ€œTake care of yourselves. Thought of Haruto all day after reading this. - Puneโ€

  • Lincoln Martin ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $25
  • Gugu S. Van Wyk ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $20
  • Michal Golan ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $20

    โ€œMy father told me about this one. - Tel Avivโ€

  • Ella E. Spencer ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $15

Reviews

2.7(3 reviews)

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  • Anton Klaus Pohl๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ชVerified donor
    Exceptional service

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

  • Stepan Alexander Lysenko๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified helper
    Reliable and compassionate

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

  • Ritu B. Oberoi๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณVerified donor
    Changed my perspective

    I was nervous about reaching out, but this person made me feel comfortable and supported from the very first interaction. Their help was invaluable.

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  • You're not alone. I hope things turn around soon. Love from Jakarta Barat.

    • hope things get better soon. This could happen to any of us. Don't give up. Thinking of Tokyo.

      • Thanks for sharing this, Haruto. Get well soon. Thinking of Tokyo.

        • Sending strength, Haruto. Wishing Haruto a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Thinking of Tokyo.

          $1,155 raised of $4,250

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