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Fikru wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care

Fikru can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $600.

🇪🇹 Addis Ababa, Ethiopia2,320 views
Meseret Almaz Ayele
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Addis Ababa
I'm caring for my father, who's 86. After a diagnosis of dementia Fikru can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Fikru desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Fikru worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $600 goes: • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $40 • Part-time carer (six months): $520 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $40 Every share and every dollar helps.

Updates from Meseret

  1. 36% there. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Thank you.

  2. 37% there. the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. Thank you.

  3. 27% there. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Thank you.

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  • Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Love from Nha Trang.

    • hang in there. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

      • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Fikru.

        • It's all in the list in the story. mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is the big one at $40, I'll post a receipt when it's paid. Appreciate you taking the time.

      • Sending strength, Meseret. Hope this works out for you. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. All the best.

        • your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Addis Ababa.

          • Stay strong, Meseret. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. God bless.

            • Lidia PopovQuestion

              is there anything that isn't money that would help Fikru?

              • Sharing the link is the biggest thing. And if you know anything about mobility aids and bathroom adaptations, advice is welcome too. Fair thing to want to know.

            • Craig W. Van WykPhoto verified

              Good luck, Meseret. Hope this works out for you. Please keep us posted

              • So sorry you're going through this, Meseret. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Thinking of Addis Ababa

                • Sending strength. Hope the doctors have good news. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust.

                  • Wishing you peace, Meseret. Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours.

                    • Hang in there. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day

                      • hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend

                        • Thinking of you, Meseret. Shared this with my family.

                          • Stay strong, Meseret. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Don't give up.

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