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Care for Tomasz, 75: help cover a carer and medication in Leeds

Tomasz, 75, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $4,250 for a carer and medicines.

🇬🇧 Leeds, England, United Kingdom2,128 views
Julia Anna Czarnecki
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Leeds
I'm caring for my father, who's 75. After a stroke last April Tomasz can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Tomasz desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Tomasz worked all of his life as a bus driver, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,250 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $3,000 • Medication and prescriptions: $580 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $260 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $410 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Julia

  1. Small update. $1,138 so far, I made the first payment toward medication and prescriptions.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($852 in total) I made the first payment toward part-time carer. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  • Anonymous 🇸🇦 · $200
  • Matilde Barbara Valentini 🇮🇹 · $200
  • Sana Mehwish Jilani 🇵🇰 · $100
  • Olga Polina Pavlenko 🇷🇺 · $100
  • Iván R. Moreno 🇲🇽 · $100
  • Silvia S. Campos 🇨🇴 · $75

    “Best of luck. Hope you get the rest soon. - Palmira”

  • Zoya Mehwish Raza 🇵🇰 · $75
  • Sebastian Damian Kaźmierczak 🇵🇱 · $75
  • Angelica C. Reyes 🇵🇭 · $69.50
  • Anonymous 🇵🇱 · $68

    “God bless. Small amount but sent with love. - Gliwice”

  • Mercy Barasa 🇰🇪 · $68
  • Angel Wang 🇺🇸 · $50
  • Dorota Hanna Pawlak 🇵🇱 · $50
  • Cameron W. Kelly 🇺🇸 · $50

    “Stay strong. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Miami”

  • Adalynn M. Lambert 🇺🇸 · $50
  • Anonymous 🇳🇵 · $49
  • Fernando C. Rodriguez 🇨🇦 · $30
  • Cameron R. Lee 🇺🇸 · $30
  • Bushra Uzma Awan 🇵🇰 · $30

    “Hang in there. Thought of Tomasz all day after reading this. - Hyderabad”

  • Raymond Owusu 🇬🇭 · $30

    “Hope things get better. Hope the July deadline works out. - Kumasi”

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2.7(6 reviews)

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    Amazing support system

    This is what community support looks like. They didn't just offer generic advice; they provided personalized help tailored to my specific situation.

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    Helped when no one else could

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

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    Really cared about my situation

    I was skeptical at first, but this person proved to be reliable and genuinely interested in helping. Their response time was incredible and their solutions were practical.

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    Changed my perspective

    This is what community support looks like. They didn't just offer generic advice; they provided personalized help tailored to my specific situation.

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    Outstanding person

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

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    Exactly what I needed

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

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  • Sending strength. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We're a small family in Calgary but we're thinking of you.

    • rooting for you, Julia. Wishing Tomasz a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

      • gave what I could, wish it was more. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you

        $2,041.50 raised of $4,250

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