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Care for Russell, 80: help cover a carer and medication in Eugene

Russell can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $6,500.

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Zoe G. Allen
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Eugene
I'm caring for my father, who's 80. After a diagnosis of dementia Russell can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Russell desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Russell worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $6,500 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $5,000 • Medication and prescriptions: $560 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $520 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $420 Every share and every dollar helps.

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  • Looking forward to the next update. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Greetings from Bandung.

    • what's already covered and what's the $6,500 for?

      • Zoe G. AllenOwnerAnswerID verified

        Part-time carer (three months) is $5,000 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page. Thanks for looking so closely.

    • Wishing you peace, Zoe. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Love from Accra.

      • Thinking of you. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Blessings.

        • Nabirye RashidiAddress verified

          Hope this works out for you. Thinking of Eugene.

          • how is Russell doing now?

            • Praying for you, Zoe. It takes guts to ask. Well done. All the best.

              • is there anything that isn't money that would help Russell?

                • Zoe G. AllenOwnerAnswerID verified

                  Thank you. If you're in Eugene I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks for asking.

              • Stay strong. This could happen to any of us. My husband and I read this together. Love from Vitória da Conquista.

                • Take care, Zoe. Hope this works out for you. After 17 years in nursing I know how hard it is to ask for anything. God bless.

                  • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't give up. Love from Nashik.

                    • hang in there, Zoe. Gave what I could, wish it was more. God bless.

                      • You're not alone, Zoe. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Take care.

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