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Care for Riaan, 89: help cover a carer and medication in Soweto

Riaan, 89, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,250 for a carer and medicines.

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Carla K. Abrahams
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Soweto
I'm caring for my father, who's 89. After worsening Parkinson's disease Riaan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Riaan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Riaan worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,250 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $990 • Medication and prescriptions: $100 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $75 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $85 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself.

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  • Carlos G. Solís 🇲🇽 · $200

    “Best of luck. Hope you get the rest soon. - Tlaquepaque”

  • Sheldon N. Rowe 🇯🇲 · $100

    “God bless. From Mandeville with love. - Mandeville”

  • Vincent Papa Opoku 🇬🇭 · $98

    “Get well soon. Hope the April deadline works out. - Obuasi”

  • Blessing Abdullahi 🇳🇬 · $70.50

    “Thought of Riaan all day after reading this. - Lagos”

  • Eva A. Mack 🇺🇸 · $63
  • Leo G. Perez 🇵🇭 · $50
  • Michel Fabrice Louis 🇫🇷 · $50
  • Jan Stanisław Sokołowski 🇵🇱 · $50
  • Hye-won Jung 🇺🇸 · $50
  • Hoàng Nam Le 🇻🇳 · $50
  • Serkan Emre Şahin 🇹🇷 · $34
  • Oluwaseun Adaeze Alabi 🇳🇬 · $30
  • Xuân Oanh Vo 🇻🇳 · $25
  • Grace F. Fisher 🇺🇸 · $25
  • Karina D. Morales 🇲🇽 · $20

    “Happy to help. My colleague told me about this one. - San Cristóbal de las Casas”

  • Bảo Dũng Le 🇻🇳 · $10
  • Shima Lamia Sen 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Imran Jahid Miah 🇧🇩 · $10
  • Nhung Vy Thai 🇻🇳 · $10
  • Nao Junko Hayashi 🇯🇵 · $10

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  • wishing you the best, Carla. Your post was clear and honest. Love from Stuttgart.

    • Wishing you the best, Carla. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Thinking of Soweto

      • Praying for you. Shared it with a few friends. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Greetings from Fort Worth

        • Dennis F. BurkeID verified

          Thinking of you, Carla. Wishing Riaan a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.

          • Good luck. Hope you get there. I hope April is when things finally get easier.

            $1,007 raised of $1,250

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