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Brian wants to stay at home - help fund four months of care

Help Brian stay in his own home with four months of part-time care.

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Jameson D. Valdez
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I'm caring for my father, who's 74. After a diagnosis of dementia Brian can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Brian desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Brian worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $4,850 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $3,100 • Medication and prescriptions: $810 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $460 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $480 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Jameson

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  • look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Love from Arlington

    • Thinking of you, Jameson. Get well soon. Wish I lived closer to Lapu-Lapu so I could bring a meal. Greetings from Iloilo City.

      • So sorry you're going through this, Jameson. Hope you get there

        • hope you get there. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from Guadalajara.

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