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Bích wants to stay at home - help fund eight months of care

Bích, 79, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,000 for a carer and medicines.

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Huy Dương Cao
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Da Nang
I'm caring for my mother, who's 79. After a diagnosis of dementia Bích can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Bích desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Bích worked all of her life as a factory worker, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,000 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $780 • Medication and prescriptions: $110 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $50 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself. - Huy

Updates from Huy

  1. We're at 78% thanks to 17 of you. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.

  2. We're at 56% thanks to 10 of you. I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. More news soon.

  3. Quick update: $470 raised so far (47%). I made the first payment toward part-time carer. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Ian M. Jackson 🇬🇧 · $100

    “Hope this helps. This is from my last paycheck, glad to do it. - Southampton”

  • Anonymous 🇵🇱 · $100
  • Maarten Mulder 🇳🇱 · $100

    “My cousin told me about this one. - Haarlem”

  • Bagus Wahyu Wijaya 🇮🇩 · $100

    “Take care of yourselves. My mother told me about this one. - Surakarta”

  • Razvan Petru Popescu 🇷🇴 · $78

    “From my family to yours. Hope you get the rest soon. - Iași”

  • Pankaj T. Tripathi 🇮🇳 · $59

    “Rooting for you. Gave what I could this week. - Bengaluru”

  • Asma Lubna Said 🇲🇦 · $51
  • Jasmine G. Castillo 🇵🇭 · $50
  • Daniel D. Chavez 🇬🇧 · $50
  • Ruma Shefali Islam 🇧🇩 · $50
  • Anonymous 🇰🇪 · $42

    “Be well. Thought of Bích all day after reading this. - Likoni”

  • Gregory L. Robinson 🇺🇸 · $36
  • Achieng Rose Kimaro 🇹🇿 · $30
  • Bushra Zara Niazi 🇵🇰 · $25
  • Abosede Obiageli Bankole 🇳🇬 · $25

    “Happy to help. Thought of Bích all day after reading this. - Epe”

  • Liam Green 🇺🇸 · $20

    “Hope it all works out. I'm in Fort Worth, thinking of you. - Fort Worth”

  • Esperanza Ochoa 🇲🇽 · $15

    “Good luck. Small amount but sent with love. - Iztapalapa”

  • Shinji Ren Hashimoto 🇯🇵 · $15
  • Abosede Ajayi 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Ahmed B. Singh 🇿🇦 · $10

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  • Sending good thoughts. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Love from Winston-Salem.

    • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Bích?

      • Huy Dương CaoOwnerAnswer

        Thank you. If you're in Da Nang I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. It helps to be asked.

    • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My neighbor in São Paulo donated after I showed her your page. Love from São Paulo.

      • Wishing you the best, Huy. Shared it with a few friends. Take care.

        $1,031 raised of $1,000

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