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Barbara wants to stay at home - help fund six months of care
Barbara cannot afford the care She needs after the death of her spouse; we are asking for $3,950.
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I'm caring for my mother, who's 81. After the death of her spouse Barbara can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Barbara desperately wants to stay at home.
I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer.
Barbara worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back.
Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference.
The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices.
Where the $3,950 goes:
• Part-time carer (six months): $3,000
• Medication and prescriptions: $390
• Hospital bed and mattress rental: $175
• Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $385
Whatever you can give, even just sharing this page, means a lot.
- Chiara
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I hope things turn around soon. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Thinking of Palermo.
Your post was clear and honest. After 14 years in farming I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Mumbai
Hope it all works out. Wishing Barbara a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Blessings.
is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Barbara.
Sure. The biggest one is part-time carer (six months), $3,000. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Let me know if you want more detail.
Best of luck. Wishing Barbara a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I'll check back for the next update. Thinking of Palermo
Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My neighbor in Ribeirão Preto donated after I showed her your page. God bless.
So sorry you're going through this, Chiara. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Wish I lived closer to Boulogne-Billancourt so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Palermo!
Best of luck, Chiara. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Take care
Good luck, Chiara. Shared it with a few friends.
hope this works out for you. Greetings from Gujranwala.
Thinking of you. Looking forward to the next update. Put this on a community board in Cape Town this morning. Love from Cape Town.
Good luck, Chiara. Looking forward to the next update. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.
Good luck, Chiara. I hope things turn around soon. My neighbor in Newcastle upon Tyne donated after I showed her your page. Blessings
Wishing you peace, Chiara. Hope you get there. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.
Wishing you peace. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. It's not much but it's yours. Thinking of Palermo.
Sending good thoughts, Chiara. I hope things turn around soon. All the best.