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Bappy wants to stay at home - help fund three months of care

Bappy, 82, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $3,450 for a carer and medicines.

🇬🇧 United Kingdom4,411 views
Parvin Shirin Das
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Coventry
I'm caring for my father, who's 82. After a stroke last August Bappy can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Bappy desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Bappy worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $3,450 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $1,650 • Medication and prescriptions: $830 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $440 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $530 With deep gratitude, Parvin
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Updates from Parvin

  1. Thank you all. We're at 48% now ($1,651). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($1,404 in total) I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  3. Small update. $1,094 so far, the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled.

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  • Blessing Esther Nwachukwu

    Sending strength, Parvin. Get well soon. We're a small family in Niterói but we're thinking of you. Blessings

    • Isabelle K. CaldwellQuestion

      Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Coventry.

      • Parvin Shirin DasOwnerAnswer

        Thank you. If you're in Coventry I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. It helps to be asked.

    • Kendall E. Aguilar

      Sending good thoughts. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Take care

      • Mohammed Rami Rashid

        Praying for you. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Blessings

        • Ikenna Henry Uzor

          Hang in there. Hope this works out for you. Sent it to 13 people at work.

          • Ginevra Federica Grasso

            Wishing you peace. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. After 28 years in farming I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Thinking of Coventry.

            • Nadia Taghreed Hussein

              Praying for you. Get well soon. Greetings from Dwarka

              • Rodel T. Agustin

                Take care, Parvin. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Sent it to 29 people at work. Greetings from Lagos

                • Bunga Rina Suharto

                  Wishing Bappy a smooth procedure and a full recovery. All the best.

                  $3,338 raised of $3,450

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