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Florian is a single parent of a teenage son and a daughter in primary school - help us after the death of my husband

After the death of my husband, Florian is raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school alone and needs $3,200 to stay afloat for 5 months.

🇩🇪 Düsseldorf, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany1,287 views
Florian David Schuster
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Düsseldorf
Since the death of my husband in August, I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a driver, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as an electrician in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,200 goes: • Rent top-up: $2,050 • Childcare and after-school care: $610 • Groceries and school meals: $540 Thanks for reading all this. - Florian

Updates from Florian

  1. Update from Düsseldorf: I made the first payment toward rent top-up. We're at 5% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

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  • Thinking of you, Florian. I hope things turn around soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.

    • Hope you get there. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Düsseldorf.

      • Keep going. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Take care

        • Soo-jin Yun-seo ShinQuestionPhoto verified

          is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Florian.

          • Florian David SchusterOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

            Sure. The biggest one is rent top-up, $2,050. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Thanks for asking.

        • Thinking of you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money!

          • Rooting for you, Florian. This could happen to any of us. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it.

            • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Düsseldorf

              • Florian David SchusterOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

                Thank you. If you're in Düsseldorf I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great.

            • Best of luck. This could happen to any of us. Love from Lahore.

              • You're not alone, Florian. I hope things turn around soon. My neighbor in Moscow donated after I showed her your page

                • Wishing you peace, Florian. Your post was clear and honest. Take care.

                  • Wishing you peace, Florian. This could happen to any of us. My neighbor in Katowice donated after I showed her your page. Thinking of Düsseldorf

                    • Thanks for sharing this, Florian. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Mobile.

                      • shared this with my family. Greetings from Lahore

                        • Pavel Tareq SultanaPhoto verified

                          I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from San Jose

                          • Thinking of you. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Don't give up. All the best

                            • Thinking of you and your family, Florian. Shared it with a few friends. Love from Atlanta

                              • Rose R. MartinezID verified

                                hope it all works out. Looking forward to the next update. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. God bless.

                                • wishing you peace, Florian. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. I have a 16 year old who wants to send good wishes too. God bless.

                                  • So sorry you're going through this, Florian. Hope this works out for you. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Düsseldorf.

                                    • Praying for you, Florian. Your post was clear and honest. Take care.

                                      • This could happen to any of us. Sent it to 34 people at work. Take care.

                                        • Thinking of you, Florian. I hope things turn around soon. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

                                          • Good luck, Florian. Shared this with my family. All the best.

                                            • So sorry you're going through this, Florian. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

                                              • Matthew A. BurkePhoto verified

                                                Keep going, Florian. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. My husband and I read this together. Love from Los Angeles.

                                                • You're not alone. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. All the best

                                                  • Xue LiuID verified

                                                    Hang in there, Florian. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'll check back for the next update. Thinking of Düsseldorf

                                                    • Best of luck. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Love from Thane.

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