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Yolanda is a single parent of two young children - help us after my partner leaving

Yolanda and two young children need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

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Yolanda J. Vargas
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Los Angeles
Last February I went through my partner leaving, and I'm now raising two young children on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a web developer in the evenings, which will triple my income by May, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,200 goes: • Rent top-up: $860 • Childcare and after-school care: $1,050 • Groceries and school meals: $890 • Course fees and exam costs: $400 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

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  1. We're at 44% thanks to 48 of you. I made the first payment toward course fees and exam costs. More news soon.

  2. Quick update: $760 raised so far (24%). I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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    “Thought of Yolanda all day after reading this. - Rawalpindi”

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    “You got this. Hope the May deadline works out. - Rawalpindi”

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  • Thanks for sharing this, Yolanda. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. God bless!

    • Thinking of you, Yolanda. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Love from Patras

      • rooting for you, Yolanda. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon

        • Thinking of you. Hope you get there. I went through something like this 2 years ago and strangers helped me out

          • Hope things get better soon, Yolanda. Shared it with a few friends. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Greetings from Buenos Aires.

            • Quỳnh Hoa TrinhAddress verified

              Thanks for sharing this, Yolanda. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. We're a small family in Faisalabad but we're thinking of you. Blessings

              • Sending love, Yolanda. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry

                • your post was clear and honest. I hope May is when things finally get easier. Greetings from Santa Rosa.

                  • thanks for sharing this. Looking forward to the next update. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care

                    • Sending love, Yolanda. I hope things turn around soon. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Leeds

                      • Wishing you peace, Yolanda. Gave what I could, wish it was more. We're a small family in Tallahassee but we're thinking of you. All the best.

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