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Ruth is a single parent of a teenage son and a daughter in primary school - help us after a sudden redundancy

A single parent in Bakersfield needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Ruth retrains.

🇺🇸 Bakersfield, California, United States2,430 views
Ruth W. Cunningham
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Bakersfield
After a sudden redundancy in July, I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a teaching assistant in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,900 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,800 • Childcare and after-school care: $820 • Groceries and school meals: $890 • Course fees and exam costs: $390 If you're reading this, thank you. - Ruth

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  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($1,156 in total) I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. 25% there. I made the first payment toward childcare and after-school care. Thank you.

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  • Hope it all works out, Ruth. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. I have a 7 year old who wants to send good wishes too!

    • Good luck, Ruth. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I went through something like this 10 years ago and strangers helped me out. Blessings

      • Sending good thoughts, Ruth. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

        • Praying for you, Ruth. Shared this with my family. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like

          • sending strength. Your post was clear and honest. I hope November is when things finally get easier. Thinking of Bakersfield.

            • wishing you peace, Ruth. This could happen to any of us

              • Sending good thoughts, Ruth. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. God bless.

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