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Nicholas is a single parent of a teenage son and a daughter in primary school - help us after a sudden redundancy

After a sudden redundancy, Nicholas is raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school alone and needs $3,600 to stay afloat for 5 months.

🇺🇸 Charlotte, North Carolina, United States3,295 views
Nicholas B. Silva
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Since a sudden redundancy in May, I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a school kitchen assistant, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by September, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $3,600 goes: • Course fees and exam costs: $810 • Rent top-up: $1,600 • Childcare and after-school care: $1,190 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure. - Nicholas

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  1. We're at 41% thanks to 28 of you. the first invoice got paid this week. More news soon.

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    “Get well soon. Thought of Nicholas all day after reading this. - Savar”

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  • Good luck. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Lagos.

    • Thinking of you and your family. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'm in teaching myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. God bless

      • Thinking of you, Nicholas. Shared it with a few friends. Sent it to 27 people at work.

        • Thanks for sharing this, Nicholas. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My neighbor in Embakasi donated after I showed her your page.

          • Hang in there. This could happen to any of us. My neighbor in Manukau donated after I showed her your page. All the best

            • Sending strength, Nicholas. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double

              • Sneha H. KushwahaPhoto verified

                Rooting for you, Nicholas. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Thinking of Charlotte

                • Hang in there, Nicholas. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Thinking of Charlotte

                  • praying for you, Nicholas. Hope this works out for you. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. God bless.

                    • hope this works out for you. I went through something like this 6 years ago and strangers helped me out. Take care

                      • You're not alone, Nicholas. Looking forward to the next update.

                        • sending strength, Nicholas. Shared it with a few friends. God bless.

                          • Good luck, Nicholas. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Blessings.

                            • Thanks for sharing this, Nicholas. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. We're a small family in Prayagraj but we're thinking of you. Thinking of Charlotte.

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