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Esra is a single parent of a teenage son and a daughter in primary school - help us after a divorce

After a divorce, Esra is raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school alone and needs $3,850 to stay afloat for 5 months.

🇩🇪 Munich, Bavaria, Germany1,279 views
Esra Uçar
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Munich
Since a divorce in August, I'm now raising a teenage son and a daughter in primary school on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a bookkeeper in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,850 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,600 • Childcare and after-school care: $930 • Groceries and school meals: $650 • Course fees and exam costs: $670 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself. - Esra

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  • Yun-seo Bo-ra JangPhoto verified

    I hope things turn around soon. Put this on a community board in Ballarat this morning.

    • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Esra.

      • Esra UçarOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

        The list at the bottom is the whole picture. rent top-up is the biggest at $1,600. Good question.

    • Hande Eda ÖzerAddress verified

      hope you get there. Don't give up.

      • Your post was clear and honest. Put this on a community board in Stockholm this morning. Blessings.

        • How is Esra doing now?

          • Wulan Dewi HandokoPhoto verified

            This could happen to any of us. Please keep us posted. Thinking of Munich.

            • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Esra?

              • Esra UçarOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

                Thank you. If you're in Munich I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks for asking.

            • sending love, Esra. Your post was clear and honest. I went through something like this 8 years ago and strangers helped me out. Love from Indore

              • I hope things turn around soon. Wish I lived closer to Bang Khen so I could bring a meal. All the best.

                • Praying for you. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Love from Rome.

                  • Rooting for you, Esra. This could happen to any of us. I went through something like this 11 years ago and strangers helped me out.

                    • Rotimi Ibrahim ShittuPhoto verified

                      Hope things get better soon. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Love from Berlin.

                      • Keep going, Esra. Your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Munich.

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