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Back on our feet: Valentina and two young children in Dayton

A single parent in Dayton needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Valentina retrains.

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Valentina J. Ochoa
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Dayton
Last October I went through the death of my husband, and I'm now raising two young children on my own. I work as a retail cashier, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a teaching assistant in the evenings, which will triple my income by February, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $2,800 goes: โ€ข Childcare and after-school care: $1,050 โ€ข Rent top-up: $1,250 โ€ข Course fees and exam costs: $500 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Valentina

  1. Update from Dayton: we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. We're at 4% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  • William H. Warren ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $500

    โ€œGod bless. Been where you're, it gets better. - Londonโ€

  • Masud Alamin Mondal ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $200

    โ€œHope things get better. - Rajshahiโ€

  • Clinton T. Nkosi ๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ยท $94
  • Alexander Romanov ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $75
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $50

    โ€œWishing you the best. - Cincinnatiโ€

  • Paul Samuel Coker ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $30

    โ€œBe well. I'm in Kano, thinking of you.โ€

  • Dolores E. Flores ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25

    โ€œBlessings. I'm in Boston, thinking of you.โ€

  • Yoko Mei Kato ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $25
  • Armando C. Ibรกรฑez ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25
  • Dustin Ortiz ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $20
  • Harini G. Nambiar ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $18
  • Jana Monika Schmitz ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $11
  • Urvashi M. Mehta ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $10

    โ€œWishing you the best. - Nizamabadโ€

  • Yash G. Kothari ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $5
  • Paul Opio Ngowi ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $3

    โ€œEvery little bit! - Nakuruโ€

Reviews

3.0(18 reviews)

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  • Asher Day๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธVerified helper
    Honest and trustworthy

    I was skeptical at first, but this person proved to be reliable and genuinely interested in helping. Their response time was incredible and their solutions were practical.

  • Kathleen Mendoza๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญVerified donor
    Practical and effective help

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Guillaume Louis๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ทVerified donor
    Changed my perspective

    This helper is honest and transparent about what they can do. They didn't overpromise, but they did deliver excellent results. I would definitely trust them again.

  • Naomi M. Lucas๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธVerified helper
    Went above and beyond

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Giorgio Milani๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡นVerified helper
    Great help in a difficult time

    Couldn't have asked for better support. They listened carefully, understood my situation deeply, and provided thoughtful advice that actually worked. Thank you so much.

  • Shelly-Ann H. Hylton๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ฒVerified helper
    Very responsive and caring

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Tatiana Moroz๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified donor
    Patient and understanding

    I was nervous about reaching out, but this person made me feel comfortable and supported from the very first interaction. Their help was invaluable.

  • Humaira Warraich๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐVerified donor
    Outstanding person

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Gennaro Negri๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡นVerified helper
    Really cared about my situation

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

  • Aadhya Negi๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณVerified donor
    Practical and effective help

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Aiden G. Cruz๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡งVerified helper
    Delivered on promises

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

  • Omolara Jimoh๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌVerified donor
    Amazing support system

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Maria Sawicki๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฑVerified helper
    Helped when no one else could

    This helper is honest and transparent about what they can do. They didn't overpromise, but they did deliver excellent results. I would definitely trust them again.

  • Dola Akter๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉVerified helper
    Delivered on promises

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Irfan Tampubolon๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉVerified donor
    Made me feel heard

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

  • Mahmoud El-Sayed๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡งVerified donor
    Really cared about my situation

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

  • Jannat Mahmud๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡งVerified helper
    Amazing support system

    Perfect example of someone making a real difference. They took time out of their busy schedule to help me and never made me feel like a burden.

  • Lourdes Pineda๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญVerified donor
    Exceptional service

    The support I received was beyond what I expected. Not only did they help with the immediate need, but they also provided guidance for long-term solutions. I'm forever grateful.

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  • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Valentina?

    • Valentina J. OchoaOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

      Sharing the link is the biggest thing. And if you know anything about childcare and after-school care, advice is welcome too. Let me know if you want more detail.

  • Sending good thoughts. I hope things turn around soon. I went through something like this 8 years ago and strangers helped me out.

    • do you have the lease you could share with the moderators?

      • Valentina J. OchoaOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

        I sent the lease in when I posted. I'll upload a redacted copy this week.

    • Thanks for sharing this. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My neighbor in Jacksonville donated after I showed her your page.

      • Sophie ThompsonID verified

        Hope things get better soon. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Sent it to 20 people at work. All the best.

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